We did a lot of cooking together as a family when my children were younger. Cookies and cakes mostly, and I wish now I would have spent more time teaching them entrees, side dishes, casseroles, lasagna, meatloaf and other assorted family recipes. They still call me when they have a cooking question and they have all turned into great cooks. Spending time in the kitchen cooking can be a pleasure for children of all ages. Start them young and with any luck they'll develop a lifelong love of the kitchen as well as skills they can use throughout adulthood. I found this awesome guide to the skills they can learn by age. Children will vary in their ability to undertake different cooking activities. Use your own judgment to choose tasks you think are suitable for your child. Safety is the biggest concern; beyond that, a little trial and error is all part of the fun.
Here is a list of suggested activities for under 3s, 3-5 year olds, 5-7 years olds, 8-11 year olds and children 12 and above.
Cooking with the under 3s
Your little one may not be able to dress himself or go to the toilet on her own, but from around 18 months, your child will probably want to start 'helping you out' in the kitchen. Take advantage of their interest to give yourself a break. If they're entertained in the kitchen, you can get on with the business of cooking and you'll both be happy. Ensure all hazards are away from grabbing hands - pot handles, hot food and liquids, sharp or heavy utensils and cleaning products. Think about what they can reach or trip over and make sure there is always a clear path if you're carrying anything hot, sharp or heavy. You can set them up on the kitchen table so you know they're at a safe distance.
Once you've cleared the way, this is your opportunity to teach your child about food and familiarise them with the kitchen environment.
Here are some of the activities very young children will enjoy:
· Washing vegetables - this is a great way of teaching them the names of vegetables and sparking an interest, which will hopefully encourage them to try different food.
· Stirring ingredients - they should be at room temperature.
· Mashing with a fork or potato masher – again, watch out for temperature.
· Sprinkling - flour, cake decorations and icing sugar; put a tray underneath to avoid too much mess.
· Spooning ingredients into scales - you'll need to help!
Another way to keep young children occupied is to give them plastic containers and utensils to wash in the sink - this can provide lengthy entertainment while you cook.
Activities to try with 3-5 year olds
· Weighing - pouring or spooning ingredients into scales. Using measuring spoons.
· Washing fruit and vegetables.
· Cutting soft ingredients like butter, mushrooms, strawberries using a strong plastic knife.
· Breading and flouring - you can set up three stations with flour, beaten egg and breadcrumbs for fish fingers.
· Mixing - using either a spoon or hands to mix together ingredients.
· Tearing and squashing - tearing herbs and lettuce or squashing fruit.
· Sieving - it's best to balance the sieve over a bowl and tap it rather than shaking it around!
· Using a pestle and mortar - a light wooden one is better than a heavy one.
· Kneading - light kneading can be fun but you'll need to step in to complete the task.
· Rolling, shaping and cutting dough - choose plastic cutters and a small rolling.
· Spreading - buttering bread and spreading icing.
· Podding, picking and hulling - podding broad beans, picking leaves, tomatoes off the vine and hulling strawberries
Cooking with 5-7 year olds
Along with the skills suggested for 3-5 year olds, you can now introduce your child to trickier techniques and equipment. At this stage, you could think about buying your child a knife designed for young cooks or using a small adult one.
With the introduction of sharp cutting tools like knives and scissors, always consider the ability of your child and if you're not comfortable, then leave it for a while. There are still other more complex skills they can enjoy. If you do think they can manage then still always keep an eye on them as it's very easy to slip even for adults.
Activities to try with 5-7 year olds
· Cutting using a small knife - children should learn how to form their hand into a claw to keep fingertips out of danger .
· Cutting with scissors - if you can get smaller scissors or children's scissors, use them to snip herbs.
· Grating - fingers can easily be grated so keep watch and make sure they don't get too close to the end of whatever they're grating.
· Measuring - even the very youngest children can do this but as children learn to read and do basic math, this is a great opportunity for them to do this with less supervision.
· Rubbing in - rubbing in flour and butter with fingertips is called for in many recipes.
· Beating and folding - show children how to beat cake mixture with a wooden spoon or fold in egg whites without knocking out too much air.
· Greasing and lining a cake tin or tray.
· Peel oranges or hard-boiled eggs - make sure eggs aren't too hot, run them under the cold tap first and be careful of residual heat.
· Setting the table - encourage them to cherish the ritual of family meals.
Cooking with 8-11 year olds
Along with the skills suggested for 3-5 and 5-7 year olds, when children reach 8+, they can start to get involved with planning and undertake activities with a bit more independence. Supervision is still key, due to the number of hazards in the kitchen but take a hands-off approach where possible.
Activities to try with 8-11 year olds
· Planning the family meal.
· Following a simple recipe.
· Finding ingredients in the cupboards and fridge.
· Using a peeler.
· Whisking, using a balloon whisk or handheld mixer.
· Using heat on an oven and microwave.
· Making salads.
· Opening cans.
Gradually introduce your children to the above and make sure they are aware of the dangers involved. If you feel they are not ready, hold off for a while. Cuts and burns are common in the kitchen so always keep an eye on them. However capable they may be, it's easy to get distracted or try to rush an activity.
Cooking with 12+ year olds
Along with the skills suggested for 5-7 and 7-11 year olds, when children reach 12+, they can begin to prepare more complex recipes and even start improvising. How much they can achieve depends on how interested they are in cooking and how much they've done before.
Even much older children should have some supervision to avoid accidents in the kitchen.
· Food hygiene - washing hands at the beginning and in between touching raw and ready-to-eat ingredients.
· Math - counting, dividing portions, doubling recipes, adding and subtracting.
· Recognizing ingredients and learning their origin.
· Recognizing kitchen equipment and learning how to use it.
· Reading and following recipes in order to create the final dish.
· Following instructions - young children are particularly inclined to want to add more, jump stages or taste when they shouldn't.
· Different tastes, textures and foods.
· Time and patience.
· The science of cooking, “what happens to things when you apply heat or cold”.
· Dexterity, fine motor skills and coordination, carrying or pouring without spilling, opening containers and packets, weighing.
When children learn to cook, they will do so by following the recipes carefully with your help. As they become older and more experienced, let them experiment with quantities, although remember that most baking recipes have specific quantities that will not work if changed. Give them opportunities to let their imagination run wild when it comes to presentation of the final dish.
Children will learn many things through cooking but the greatest lesson they can learn is a love preparing delicious, healthy, well-rounded meals.